The Peacemaking Committee of Trinity Presbytery announces an essay contest for high school students residing within Trinity Presbytery who are members of a church within Trinity Presbytery or who are active in a Trinity Presbytery ministry. Graduating seniors are eligible to participate. Five cash awards of $100 each will be awarded. To be considered, essays must be submitted to the Committee by midnight on July 5, 2022. The criteria for entering the essay contest are:
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ESSAY CONTEST ANNOUNCEMENT!
Posted in Columbia SC, Events, Inspiration, Nonviolence, peacemaking, Presbyterian, tagged christianity, community service, Education, King, student essay contest on May 2, 2019| Leave a Comment »
Conflict Transformation for Christians
Posted in Conflict Transformation, Nonviolence, peacemaking, tagged conflict transformation, Peacebuilding, Waging Peace on February 20, 2012| Leave a Comment »
Jesus had a remarkable gift for seeing through everything superficial, for peeling back the layers of the dusty, superficial robes of identity we wear, to peer into a person’s inner soul. Whether speaking to a Roman Centurian, to a Samaritan adulteress, or to a distinguished Rabbi, Jesus always seemed to see beyond title or position and to respond to the deeper thoughts and real need of the individual he was relating to.
(From Wikimedia commons: Guercino, Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well)
This is no surprise, is it? We expect God to know us! Moreover, since there is no chance we will be embarrassed by meeting God in the supermarket tomorrow, it is relatively low risk for us to reveal in quiet prayer the yearnings of our deepest, secret places.
But wait! What if, as the song says, God were one of us? Would we be willing to reveal ourselves to God, in that case?
Consider Matthew 25:37-39:
Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?
What if God is among us, gauging us and knowing us even more, by every response we make to an other. What if, by our responses to others, we reveal our self to God? What if God is, in a real sense, in the other person? And, if God is present in our interactions with an other, what does that say about how we ought to relate to that other?
Consider Matthew 7:12: “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”
This is getting tough. Does it make a difference if the other is my enemy? Peter already asked that question. God does not let us off the hook. Jesus’s reply to Peter (in Matthew 5:46) was, in so many words, “no excuses:”
If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? . . . And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others?
Herein is the root of our calling to engage in Christian conflict transformation, not just conflict “resolution”. Resolution may find a superficial solution, but it does not heal the conflict. Resolution may address causes, but Christians are more or less directly instructed to go deeper, to see the other as Christ sees the other. We aim to see, and to be seen, on a deeper and less superficial level. Which is, more or less, to say that when we rise to this challenge, perhaps we begin to see ourselves and the other more like God sees us.
When we do this, we enable the cause of conflict to be addressed on a deeper and more fundamental level. Our experience of the conflict is transformed. This is what is called “conflict transformation.” When our understanding is transformed, our positions and views shift, and this new viewpoint often can cause shifts in how we respond to the conflict. To call this merely “compromise” is trite. It is the difference between the earth shifting as the result of an earthquake, versus moving a fence line. Perhaps when the earth moves, the fence is no longer even needed.
Can we do it? Yes, by the Grace of God, yes, it is possible. The principles work whether we are Christian or not. Kenneth Cloke, a secular mediator, speaks about conflict transformation in his book The Crossroads of Conflict as follows:
Every conflict presents the parties… with a… choice. They can cling to safe territory, keep the conversation focused on relatively superficial issues and avoid mentioning deeper topics, remaining locked in impasse and placing their lives on hold.
Or they can take a risk, adopt a more open, honest, empathic approach and initiate a deeper, more dangerous, heartfelt conversation that could change their lives and result in transformation and transcendence.
Which path they take will depend partly on their willingness to engage each other in heartfelt communications.
A heartfelt conversation that could change our life. Are we ready for it? Cloke explains the secular side:
Transcendence occurs when people gain insight into the attitudes, intentions and perceptions that sustained their conflict, improve their ability to learn from it, work collaboratively to prevent its reoccurrence and evolve to higher levels of conflict and resolution.
On the spiritual side, we are doing nothing less than what our Lord demands. We begin to see the other, and to see ourselves, more like God sees us. And, through this new revelation and by developing skill in relating to one another with love, we grow and learn more about how to exist as the transcendent, spiritual creatures that we are.
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To Be Present for An Other …
Posted in Conflict Transformation, Inspiration, peacemaking, prayer, tagged dialogue, prayer, tolerance on January 19, 2012| Leave a Comment »
“Through the selection of questions that empower, to the intuitive sacredness of each reframe, the genius of communication shines through in every soul who agrees to sit with presence with other souls who are rapt with pain and drowning in fear. If you are willing to go to their hell with them in every instance, you will be the artist who leads them from the self-imposed prison of skewed perception to the clarity of understanding. In that act of willingness, you will be made a stronger person in your own right.”
From N.W. Burnett, Calm in the Face of the Storm: Daily Spiritual Practice for Peacemakers, p. 256 (2010)
Illustration Angelika Kauffmann, Artist, “Christus und die Samariterin am Brunnen” (Christ and the Samaritan Woman at the Well), 1796, Courtesy Wikimedia Commons (public domain in source country and in US)
Upcoming Events to Calendar!
Posted in Columbia SC, Conflict Transformation, Events, Mission, Nonviolence, pc(usa), peacemaking, Presbyterian, Sudan, tagged Peacebuilding, peacemaking, RECONCILE, Sudan on September 16, 2011| Leave a Comment »
ONE WEEK FROM TODAY:
A week from today, on September 23, 2011, the Rev. Peter Tibi, a Presbyterian Mission Co-Worker with RECONCILE, International (in South Sudan) and Visiting PCUSA International Peacemaker, will arrive in Columbia for a visit of several days. This will be of interest to anyone interested in either peacebuilding or in Sudan and Africa missions.
A flyer has been published HERE. Please feel free to download it and post some copies, as well as announce the dates and locations of his speaking engagements! There are several opportunities for those who are interested in hearing him.
A summary of his schedule is
· Saturday 9/24/11,9:00 AM – 3:00 PM, at Forest Lake Presbyterian (bring a brown bag lunch), Rev. Tibi will share in-depth discussion of his work in the morning. The afternoon will be a gathering of peacemakers for talk about Christian Conflict transformation.
· Sunday, 9/25/11, Rev. Tibi will share Sunday School and will preach at McGregor Presbyterian, followed by a church picnic at 5:30 P.M. that evening.
· Monday, 9/26/11,Rev. Tibi will speak at the University of South Carolina
· Tuesday, 9/27/11,6:30 PM, Presbyterian Student Center, University of South Carolina
· Wednesday, 9/28/11, 5:30 PM, Supper and an evening program at Shandon Presbyterian.
NOVEMBER:
Then, the next opportunity for building our church communities through development of skills in reconciliation will be in November. Forest Lake Presbyterian will act as host church for the Lombard Mennonite Peace Center to conduct one of its four national level trainings, "Mediation Skills Training Institute for Church Leaders".
This is a great opportunity to send a pastor or elder for training that will equip that person to train others in ways to turn conflict into opportunity for cooperation. This week long seminar is designed to equip church leaders to assess and to deal with conflict of any degree or level, whether it is merely to assist individuals in working through individual disagreement, or to engage an entire congregation in mediation of conflict that threatens to tear a church apart. Endorsements from leadership in other Presbyteries can be found HERE.
Although this may seem like an expensive training, consider the alternative? This training is designed to inoculate your congregation with the conflict-competence it takes to resist (or to heal from) divisive influences. Hosting this training in the Columbia area results in substantial cost savings over sending leadership to train in distant parts of the United States. Please consider sending at one or two members of your congregation who could commit to then come back and conduct more trainings for your general congregation.
MARCH OR APRIL OF 2012:
And then, on the weekend of April 21, 2012, Presbyterian minister Theresa Latini, Associate Professor of Congregational and Community Care at Luther Seminary (and author of the book, The Church and the Crisis of Community: A Practical Theology of Small-Group Ministry), has been tentatively scheduled to teach a weekend seminar on the communication technique called Nonviolent Communication (also known as Compassionate Communication). The aim of this seminar will be to strengthen families and congregations by increasing our skills in expressing to one another the things we feel most deeply about, without inciting retaliation, anger, or judgment. Theresa will help participants learn to use NVC as a tool in the church’s work of transforming broken and shallow forms of community into life-giving, life-sustaining relationships with God and others This will be an excellent workshop for people involved in congregational and personal care, such as Deacons and Stephen Ministers.
The Peacemaking Committee is looking for a church to host this workshop. Please call Alexandria Skinner at 803-414-0185 if your church would be excited to provide hospitality for this event.
Please share this information about upcoming events with your congregation and your church session!
Learn more about RECONCILE International and CONFLICT TRANSFORMATION
Posted in Columbia SC, Events, peacemaking, Presbyterian, Sudan on September 6, 2011| Leave a Comment »
On Saturday, September 24, 2011, please come hear the Rev. Peter Tibi speak about the conflict transformation ministry of RECONCILE, International, in South Sudan and to learn more about conflict transformation in general. Following Rev. Tibi’s talk and a short morning program, there will be a brown bag (bring your own) lunch. Then, in the afternoon, Beth Padgett of Columbia’s Community Mediation Center is making arrangements for four different conflict resolution practitioners to speak about cutting edge techniques for peace building they use in their professional practices.
The conference will be held at Forest Lake Presbyterian Church , 6500 North Trenholm Road, Columbia, SC. For more detail, see below:
The morning will be devoted to hearing about the work of RECONCILE, International (Resource Centre for Civil Leadership) in the world’s newest nation, South Sudan. RECONCILE was established in 2003 by the New Sudan Council of Churches for the purpose of building peace. Activities of RECONCILE presently range from individual trauma healing, to mediation and reconciliation of disputes on a tribal level, to training of Parliamentarians in their job duties as the new government comes into being. The Rev. Peter Tibi, a former Deputy Executive Secretary of the New Sudan Council of Churches, is the current Executive Director of RECONCILE.
Lunch will be bring your own, brown-bag with tea and soft drinks provided.
In the afternoon, beginning at 1:00 P.M., Beth Padgett of the local Community Mediation Center is arranging for four different professionals to spend fifteen minutes each discussing a specific practice or technique that can be utilized in the field of conflict transformation, followed by some round table discussions.
The meeting will adjourn by about 3:00 P.M.
There is no cost or fee involved. This is purely a time of sharing and inspiration for people involved locally and regionally in peace building and conflict transformation. You are welcome to attend morning, afternoon, or both. Please feel free to invite others working in the field of conflict transformation to attend, as well. However, if you do plan to attend please send email to TrinityPeacemakers@gmail.com so that we will have an idea how many people to expect.
Also please mark your calendars for the weekend of April 21, 2012. On that weekend, Professor Theresa Latini, Associate Professor of Congregational and Community Care Leadership at Luther Seminary, who is also trained extensively in Nonviolent Communication , will teach about this technique that will strengthen individuals, families and churches in the area of congregational care.
Prayers Requested For Mission Co-Workers in South Sudan
Posted in Conflict Transformation, Inspiration, Mission, peacemaking, Presbyterian, Sudan, tagged Peacebuilding, peacemaking, Presbyterian, RECONCILE on September 6, 2011| Leave a Comment »
The Presbyterian Church has a deep and lasting commitment to the people of Sudan. As part of that commitment, Presbyterian churches support mission co-workers Shelvis and Nancy Smith-Mather in their work building peace through the RECONCILE, International (Resource Centre for Civil Leadership), in Yei Province in South Sudan.
Shelvis and Nancy participate in Reconcile’s training events that address inter-ethnic conflict. Shelvis is principal of the Peace Institute, which offers three month trainings in community based trauma healing, peace studies, and conflict transformation.
Nancy says, “I sense a powerful call on my life to reflect Jesus’ concern for the marginalized, the oppressed, the downtrodden, the sick, the poor, and the broken-hearted.”
She continues, “In a region where 1 in 7 children do not celebrate their 5th birthday, 92 percent of the women cannot read or write, and many citizens have experienced more years of war than of peace in their lives, there is a great need for Jesus’s ministry of transformation.”
Please remember Shelvis and Nancy often in your prayers as they engage in this important ministry of building peace through conflict transformation and reconciliation.
Welcome Rev. Peter Tibi
Posted in Columbia SC, Conflict Transformation, Events, Mission, Nonviolence, pc(usa), peacemaking, Sudan, tagged conflict transformation, Peacebuilding, peacemaking, Sudan on August 19, 2011| 1 Comment »
The Rev. Peter Tibi, Visiting International Peacemaker for the Presbyterian Church in the United States (PCUSA) will be in Trinity Presbytery from September 23 – 28th of 2011.
Rev. Tibi works in the area of conflict transformation among the peoples of South Sudan, the world’s newest country. He is presently Executive Director of Reconcile, International, which is supported by many churches in Trinity Presbytery.
If your church or organization would like Rev. Tibi to visit and speak to you about his work, please contact Alexandria Skinner at 803-414-0185.
Rev. Tibi received his Bachelor of Divinity from Bethany Divinity College in Dotham, Alabama; his B.A. from the University of Gloucestershire, UK; and his Masters in Theological Studies from Bethany Divinity College and Theological Seminary. Rev. Tibi has served as the Principal at Imatong Bible College in Juba, Sudan. He served as an administrator and Assistant Executive Secretary for Africa Inland Church-Sudan, and worked within AIC for 13 years. He moved on to the New Sudan Council of Churches, where he served as the Deputy Executive Secretary; then in the Sudan Council of Churches as Acting Executive Secretary and General Secretary, all over a span of five years. Rev. Tibi has served as the Executive Director of RECONCILE, International, since November of 2009.
After two decades of a brutal civil war that killed 2 million people and displaced millions more, a relative peace has come to Sudan with the signing of the Comprehensive Peace Agreement (CPA) in 2005. Now, five years after the signing of the agreement, how will Sudan hold tight to the peace?
Following a war that has occupied the great portion of a generation’s lives, how can such a traumatized people break a cycle of violence that has been building within culture itself?
In the midst of such ravaged infrastructure, where communication and interaction with other communities and government is so difficult, where can the people obtain the civic education needed to be effective members of a democratic society?
The churches of Sudan asked these exact questions, and responded with the creation of RECONCILE. Please consider either inviting Rev. Tibi to speak to your group, or finding time on your calendar to attend one of the events which will be scheduled for that week.
Blessed Are the Peacemakers
Posted in Inspiration, Nonviolence, peacemaking, tagged peacemaking on June 22, 2011| Leave a Comment »
“Jesus did not say, ‘Blessed are the peace lovers,’ He rather said, ‘Blessed are the peacemakers’ . . . . " -Jim Wallis